This will go over some people’s heads
But this is one of the realist pieces of advice you can ever get
It doesn’t matter what comes in or out of your life you are exactly who you chose to be
If you are a sad person or angry person or happy person or cruel person or kind person you will be the same person with or without money a man/woman job/career with a family or single
Life is what it is nobody is far from the experience of another we all have lost and won been hurt and happy failed and succeed felt pain and pleasure
You can’t blame life or people for being who you choose to be
If you could buy happiness there wouldn’t be rich people committing suicide or crimes and there wouldn’t be poor, broke middle class or homeless happy healthy people
You will always be exactly who you choose to be no matter what you have or don’t have what you do or don’t do or what your image or title is
So let me give you an example because that’s how important it is for this to be understood
If everyone and everything in your life makes you sad, mad, or happy it’s only because you are a sad, mad, or happy person
Whatever comes in and out of your life just exposes who you are
So let’s say an angry person who was once broke living pay check to pay check all of a sudden becomes rich if that angry person doesn’t change who they are that angry person will continue to deal with everything out of anger possibly even more than before because that angry person is even more comfortable and happy with who they are and their life
One more example if a sad person who was once single gets married and has a family doesn’t change who they are that sad person will continue to be sad nothing will ever be enough to make a sad person happy and that sad person can even become depressed because they are not happy even with a family that loves them
So if you want your life to change you have to change the way you deal with life. Whatever you want to be in life you have to become. Life is exactly what it is and you are exactly who you choose to be
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