We all have scars
Some people love to claim they are scared and feel proud because they remind them of how strong they are.
Some people take the time to examine their scars even reopen them just to make sure they heal properly.
Most people don’t want to heal their scars at all because they are afraid they will forget who they are once the scars are gone. They’re afraid to heal because they think letting go of the scar leaves them vulnerable to be hurt again when in reality pain is natural to life. We all get hurt over and over again but it’s your responsibility to make it through the pain instead of trying to avoid it because pain is inevitable. That’s how we learn and grow and become stronger and confident in ourselves.
You are going to deal with pain all your life but once you learn how to defeat what scares you you won’t be afraid to face it when it comes again.
The belief system you think is protecting you is honestly holding you back because it’s hard to learn more about something you think you already know enough about especially if you're trying to avoid it. You may have an open mind when it comes to your future or something new but when it’s time to look deeper inside yourself the past comes up too. Looking deeper inside yourself ultimately forces you to see the truth and we all know the truth hurts. So if you haven’t faced(healed from, delt with) and let go of the past pain you can’t be strategically ready for future pain.
It’s sad that most people who grow up without someone wiser and more knowledgeable than them to take them under their wing and say "I see you. I know how hard things have been for you. I’m going to guide you and help you." are the ones I’m talking about. Walking around showing off their scars with their chest puffed out ready to attack instead of healing and walking with confidence knowing they can handle any attack on them.
Hear me good...
That person who will take you under their wing may not be your father or mother or big sister or brother or pastor or friend but God is.
Let God guide you heal you and fix what’s been broken nobody or nothing else in this world is here to save you from pain and suffering but God will get you through it and heal every wound in the process.
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